19年了，不间断的走着，偶尔回头，发现了散乱的足迹

弯下腰，把重要的拾起，放在了这里……

为了，为了，为了，为了，为了……

我懂得了，你不能强求别人爱你，你所能做的是把自己塑造成值得爱的人，其余的事让别人去决定吧

I`ve learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is to be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

我懂得了，无论我有多么在乎别人，别人不会同样在乎我。

I`ve learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don`t care back.

我懂得了，人生中真正重要的不是拥有物质财富，而是拥有良友知己。

I`ve learned that it`s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.

我懂得了，你不该与别人能做到最好相比，而应该与自己做能做到的最好相比。

I`ve learned that you shouldn't compare youself to the best onthers can do, but to the best you can do.

我懂得了，瞬间做的事可能让你痛心一生。

I've learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

我懂得了，再细小的事也会有两面。

I've learned that no matter how thin you slice it there are always two sides.

我懂得了，当你早已认为自己力不从心的时候，其实你仍可以坚持前行。

I've learned that you can keep going long after you think you can't.

我懂得了，无论关系最初有多么亲密无间、如胶似漆，激情总会过去，最好有别的东西来取而代之。

I've learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion

fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

我懂得了，有人爱你至深，却不善言表。

I;ve learned that there are people who love you dearly, but don't know how to show it.

我懂得了，我和挚友无论是纵情欢畅，还是静静相守，都会无比快乐。

I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

我懂得了，再好的朋友不经意间也会伤害你，而你一定要原谅他们。

I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're goiong to hurt you every once in a

while, and you must forgive them for that.

我懂得了，仅仅被别人原谅是不够的，有时你要学会原谅自己。

I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learned to forgive yourself.

我懂得了，我们是怎样的人取决于我们的出身和环境， 但我们变成怎样的人则取决于自己。

I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are

responsible for who we become.

我懂得了，面对同一事物，仁者见仁，智者见智。

I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

中文翻译感谢，烟台大学讲师 齐静